Happiness, is that not what we all want? Then,
why are so many people unhappy? Are you happy? What makes you happy?
A new car, a more expensive one than the one of the neighbor? A big
house, fully furnished? A big screen TV, the latest cell phone
with all the gadgets? Approval of other people? All these things can
make you happy, yes, but temporarily. When the satisfaction is over,
you need another gadget, another approval to bet more happiness.
It never ends, the continuous running after happiness. Wanting ever
more, never enough, especially of money. Take a distance
from it all, and look at yourself. You buy a gadget because you
are not happy. Aside from a necessity, you buy all those things,
because you want to buy happiness. But this is not real happiness.
It is a fleeting superficial moment. And then it is gone, and you
have to buy more of it. It is a self limited point of view: the world
is there to make me happy. A one direction flow of energy: only towards
yourself. If everybody does that, that is a lot of tugging of energy
towards all those desperate beings who want happiness only for themselves.
That makes the world a place full of unhappy beings. Do
you see the point? True and enduring happiness comes from making other
people happy. This is the key! When you make another person happy,
does that make you happy? It is a feeling that lasts. And, the other
person is going to be motivated to return that wonderful gesture,
and make you happy too. When you only take you lose. When you give
you receive. It's that simple. Start giving! One more
thing: happiness is in the here and now, you create it in yourself,
by being happy with what you have. When you look for happiness outside
yourself, in all those gadgets in the approval, happiness will
always be in the future, and you will never be happy in the present.
Look within yourself, in the here and now, it is right there: HAPPINESS!
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